The Power of Being Present: Why Children need You! By Valerie Wallace

Parenting is often described as one of the most rewarding and demanding roles in life. In the midst of busy schedules, work demands, and daily responsibilities, it is easy to overlook the most valuable gift we can give our children: our presence.

Being present does not simply mean being in the same room. It means tuning in—putting aside distractions and giving your child your attention, even if only for a few moments at a time. Children thrive when they feel seen, heard, and valued. A simple conversation at dinner, reading together before bedtime, or listening closely when they share about their day communicates that they matter.

Availability also fosters trust. When children know they can rely on their parents for support, comfort, and guidance, they feel more secure. This security builds the foundation for healthy emotional development and resilience. Over time, these moments of connection shape their self-esteem and influence how they interact with the world.

Being present is not about perfection. It’s about intentionality. Even in a fast-paced world, small daily practices—like turning off the phone during family time, asking open-ended questions, or sharing laughter—can leave lasting impressions.

Ultimately, children will remember less about the material things we provided and more about how we made them feel. By being truly present and available, parents offer a priceless gift: the assurance of love, stability, and belonging.

Valerie Wallace

Executive Director

The Partnership for Children of Wayne County, Inc.